Tuesday 20 December 2016

Reflections on the importance of empathy

Over the last few weeks I have been reflecting on the power of empathy and had amazing conversations with lots of people. I wanted to document some thoughts as empathy is a big part of my gap year.

I don't think I'm going to shock anyone when I say that politics is a big part of my life.
For me politics is about people and therefore empathy should be at the core of political life, however when I wrote about this in my personal statement one of the teachers reviewing it was taken aback. Believing that a personal statement should be academic and not about emotions, They said that when they looked at politics, empathy wasn't what sprang to mind.
This contrasted with the conversations I had with people at the Christians in Politics Youth Engagement Day. Lots of young people spoke about how they felt drawn to politics because they weren't content to sit by when others needed help. Whilst I disagree with many politicians from an ideological stance, I trust that the vast majority of them signed up to do good in the way they personally thought was most effective.
Our training day ended with a Prayers for the Nation event run by the Conservative Christian Fellowship, I had to practise what I preach about the importance of cross party work by going to a Conservative event! (Kingdom before tribe!) We met in the St Mary Undercroft Chapel underneath Parliament. It was magnificent to be in such a beautiful place! We sang carols with the most amazing Gospel choir and I was blown away. There was such a sense of common humanity in our prayers.


The concept of empathy has come up again in my Amnesty Enrichment Project, I am loving the independence of planning workshops for Sixth Form students on human rights, starting with the Refugee Crisis. At the moment I am planning not knowing anything about the people who are coming in January, so thought I would begin by introducing the back ground of the crisis and facilitate discussion/ debates on whether the UK government have a responsibility to do more. Additionally one of the aims of the group is to reflect on empathy...If this challenges them to truly step into the shoes of others then the workshops have the potential to influence how to they look at news stories, elections and charity in the years to come. This is my dream.




But whilst these things have been thought provoking, it was the book 'I am Malala' that prompted me to write this blog post. Wow, did I underestimate her story! I was completely unaware of the staggering amount of work she did to raise awareness for 'a girls right to education' before her shooting. Her confidence and determination to call her government and army to account is an inspiration. When accepting awards she presented them with her demands, when receiving death threats her family continued, when friends around them were being shot they gave interviews elevating their cause at huge risk. Several times I was bought to tears, overwhelmed with sadness, desperation and frustration at the steady rise of the Taliban in Pakistan and the horrific regime they put in place.
It takes so little for us all to fall into the trap of scapegoating, and referring to fellow human beings as 'the other'. We are able to justify human rights abuses only when we chose to dehumanisation over empathy. 



Basically I think empathy is everything. 
I hope that just as I have had my mindset shifted through interesting conversations, I may be able to get others to question how seriously they take empathy as a conscious action.
Finally PLEASE watch this clip, it says all of the above better.


Prayer Requests:

- I find out about my host family in January, please be praying that I am comforted by whatever information I get sent. 
- I start the Amnesty Enrichment workshops on the 18th January at Alderbrook Sixth Form so please be praying that people turn up and are keen to get stuck in. 
- Also for my sleep, am still struggling with exhaustion and not enjoying it!

Thank you for making it to the end of my second blog post. 

Monday 14 November 2016

Hi

After much deliberation over what to call my gap year blog I have decided on ‘my online notebook’ I hope you approve! The short list included: Musings of a political activist (which I thought might give too high an expectation for my posts), Perks of a gap year and Amy Fortnam and the African Adventure (note my love of Harry Potter inspired this).
Anyway HI!
Context: On February 18th I fly to Cape Town, South Africa to spend 16 weeks volunteering at Projects Abroad Human Rights Law Firm. I will be spending Monday – Friday in their Social Justice department, helping run workshops to support 9 independent charities. During my stay I will be living with a host family and hope to find out more about them come January. Then at the end of the 16 weeks my family will reunite for a holiday travelling around South Africa. CAN’T WAIT!
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Update: My gap year technically started in September, when for the first time instead of splurging on new stationary and buying new shoes for the start of a new school year, I had independence to decide how I spend my days. This was an uncomfortable adjustment for me, as many of you know I am a self-confessed control freak and depend on structure. So I have slowly but surely imposed my own structure and now spend my time doing the following: working for a family who live around the corner as a carer for their 3 children. This is a brilliantly challenging way to earn money, I really enjoy it. I also do half a day a week at Knowle Parish Church doing admin and social media communications for the Youth Team, which is quite a contrast I appreciate. Additionally I am continuing to work for SoLO the disability charity I have been involved with for the last three years.
Also I am doing some research with Christians in Politics, helping them with their Youth Engagement Project. I am part of a team of young Christians who are already active in politics and are keen to encourage others to show up and get stuck in. Also I am planning and running a 10 week enrichment programme for Alderbrook Sixth Form with my local Amnesty Group. There are 10 sessions that will take place on a Wednesday afternoon starting in January.
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So I am keeping busy.
Fundraising: Thank you SO much to everyone who came to my quiz night in September, really appreciate your donations as well as your patience with a challenging set of questions! Am planning another event for early January, a drop in cake and hot chocolate afternoon, details to follow.
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What’s next? (West Wing fans appreciate) Well this month I am attending 3 conferences (Christians in Politics, SHOW UP NORTH, Regional and Local Liberal Democrat AGM’s) and continuing with all the projects I mentioned earlier and counting down the days till I am walking in the sunshine rather than wrapping up against the cold.
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Prayer requests: (For those of you who pray would love you to be asking for these things)
  • Energy levels!
  • ‘In the moment mind-set’ although it is exciting to count days I also want to appreciate all the fantastic things I am part of now, seeing this as a whole year of opportunities not just 4 months in South Africa.
Thank you for making it to the end of my very first blog post.